DEAR WOMAN
What do women mean when they say they can't settle down with a struggling guy?
I heard a lady say that the reason she will not marry a guy who is still in his formative stage is because she deserves" a better life" she said, she and her family has suffered enough that she wouldn't want to continue suffering hence,she needs a guy that will end her suffering and not someone she would continue the suffering with all in the name of building together.
I heard a lady say that the reason she will not marry a guy who is still in his formative stage is because she deserves" a better life" she said, she and her family has suffered enough that she wouldn't want to continue suffering hence,she needs a guy that will end her suffering and not someone she would continue the suffering with all in the name of building together.
I smiled when I heard that because the lady in question do not know that men also deserves a better life and if men should keep that standard she is living with, then, no man will want to settle down with her either. Most ladies who talk like this would want their broke brothers to marry a responsible lady, they would even go as far as convincing their friends or the lady involved to understand their brother and build with him into the future.
Some of these ladies with rich brothers will not want their brother to settle down with a lady that is broke and unsuccessful as they are but they are praying for a rich guy somewhere to locate them and choose them. Well, that is how selfish humans are.
This the exact reason why I keep telling ladies to stop seeing marriage as "POVERTY ALLEVIATION SCHEME". Instead of praying and waiting for a rich man take that time to invest in yourself and become rich, who says a lady can't be rich?
This the exact reason why I keep telling ladies to stop seeing marriage as "POVERTY ALLEVIATION SCHEME". Instead of praying and waiting for a rich man take that time to invest in yourself and become rich, who says a lady can't be rich?
t's absurd for a poor lady to be wishing to settle down with a rich guy and the same goes for a broke guy praying to marry a rich Lady..life doesn't work that way....when I say poor I mean living below your basic needs . US government explained poverty as living below 2 USD per day and extreme poverty as living below 1USD per day. Yet I see a lady whose entire salary is 30k monthly who obviously earns below 1 USD per day putting up standards that she can't marry a broke guy…
My dear instead of praying and waiting for a rich guy why not take that time and build yourself.. Every rich guy would be looking for a lady that is in his class so the best way to attract that rich guy is to become that which you desire...
Always remember, you attract who you are.