It is misinformation that makes ladies feel that when they are successful it becomes hard for men to choose them as a wife.
I once met a woman who told her girl child that was planning to get a car that she should not try it because it will make men to see her as a woman that can't submit to a man.
What is the connection between submission in marriage and a woman being established?
Who says a woman that is established can't submit to her man? Submission flows naturally from a woman who understands what it means to be a wife and stays in her place as the wife.
Every woman wether established or not will naturally submit to her man if she chooses to.
And to my best of knowledge it's always easy for a man to respect, value,and honor a woman who is established and productive, so, being an established woman somehow makes it easy for men to Respect the women in their life.
Hey lady, don't allow this notion that men don't marry an established woman to make you settle for less, as much as you can, give your best to become established, chase your dreams, rise above mediocrity, and fly with wings like an eagle .
Don't allow unproven "statement " rub you of the mindset to become established as a lady. Infact let your motivation be that Men to some extent respect women who are established.
And for men who care to know "an established woman can also be submissive "
Funny enough women who are so dependent on their men are always frustrated which brings out a lot of negative energy in marriage.
As a woman give your life to self establishment, aim for high places and give your all to achieve your dreams