Why do ladies date someone they can't proudly settle down with?
I have always wondered what is wrong with some ladies. I have had discussions with several ladies in a relationship and 75% of these ladies when asked if they can settle down with who they are in relationship with would always say no.
One of the days a lady who was part of a particular denomination got pregnant, she told her parents the name of the guy who impregnated her and it happened to be one of the notorious guys living in their environment. rumor had it that the guy was into some illegal business but to some extent he looked rich, when the parents confronted the guy he accepted the pregnancy and proposed to marry the girl with the pregnancy. The girl objected and said she can never marry the guy that he is not her spec. it was funny that day because I could not understand how a lady would be opening her legs for a man that is not her spec. Could it be because the guy had a little money he spends on her?
It's so bad that the reason why many ladies are in a relationship is because of the financial help they get from the man and not because they are really interested in the man they are with. Do you know that several ladies ended up with men they don't love because they were dating them,and at some point got pregnant and got stuck with the man.
My dear, don't date a man you can't proudly settle down with, most times,life doesn't go the way we plan, before you agree to dating a man,take your time to scrutinize everything about the man, at least,to the extent you can and be sure he is the kind of man you can settle with,if situation demands that.
Let's be guided