One of the things I noticed is that people tend to be drawn to another man or woman once they are established.
This is the reason why i tell people to make sure they understand their life before entering into a relationship especially marriage relationship.
Severally I have seen ladies who jump into a relationship and jump out after just because they agreed to marry the folk without checking if the marriage can work.
It's very important that you take your time and understand your purpose before joining any relationship. This is because when you understand your reason for existence before marriage it helps you to choose the man that fits into what God is saying and when you choose such man he will be relevant in your life all the time. Unlike getting married to a man that is not seeing what you are seeing, overtime his presence in your life apart from being a father will become frustrating
Lady, as much as you can before going into a relationship take your time to study the man, be sure you can see your vision in the man because life might being you guys at a point where the only thing that will keep you going is that vision that you both share.
Let's be guided