THE INDEPENDENT WOMAN
I have observed that several women put up with abuse, ill treatment from men, constant pain e.t.c. just because they need a man to survive .
One of the reasons why I solicit that ladies become independent is because it makes a lady know her worth and stand against anything that devalues her worth.
It's high time we ladies stop seeing relationship as a means of survival, relationship primarily should be for companionship, value addition ,and of course love. financial support should be secondary, and should not be from men alone. financial support should come from both partners in a relationship.
It's high time we ladies stop seeing relationship as a means of survival, relationship primarily should be for companionship, value addition ,and of course love. financial support should be secondary, and should not be from men alone. financial support should come from both partners in a relationship.
Several ladies out there are taking a whole lot just because they choose to be less productive and depend on their man.
My Dear, there is nothing important as building your own self, infact, fulfilment is found in what one can do not what one can get from the other. Do you know how fulfilling it feels when you look around and see how much impact you have in your environment as a lady. it makes you feel important unlike sticking around a man like a pet depending on him for everything, no wonder the abuse, the neglect, the treatment.
My Dear, there is nothing important as building your own self, infact, fulfilment is found in what one can do not what one can get from the other. Do you know how fulfilling it feels when you look around and see how much impact you have in your environment as a lady. it makes you feel important unlike sticking around a man like a pet depending on him for everything, no wonder the abuse, the neglect, the treatment.
It is high time ladies understand that the same ability that makes men successful is in them all they need is a change in mindset which will in turn affect their attitude towards succeeding in life.
We can do better.
photo source: My Beautiful Son
photo source: My Beautiful Son